May Ritual Prompt
A free offering
Hi friends. I’m sending you this from Melbourne airport. Please forgive potential grammatical errors and the lack of accompanying audio today (least it includes a sound that is now called music but is more like the grinding whirr of my old car when she refuses to start).
I’m a little late for this cross-quarter ritual. I must admit, I actually completely forgot about it until I was on an evening walk yesterday with my love and our pup, and I realised May 1st was coming up the day I was due to travel to Europe and I hadn’t sent anything out yet.
I’ve been in the paroxysm of packing and preparing for a hemispherical journey, and it completely slipped my mind.
So apologies asked two-fold. Thanks for bearing with me. And ah to the sweet relief of admitting defeat. And limitation.
I’m writing this to you now from a wrenchingly soulless airport restaurant, warmed ever-so-slightly by a glass of red wine, waiting for my gate announcement. The sacred and the profane, as ever, walk side by side.
You can scroll down for your designated hemispheres. As you might imagine, this round won’t include a prayer pot.
IF THIS IS NEW TO YOU:
These prompts are intended to deepen our sense of interconnectedness with the natural world and the cyclical nature of being/life, and to cultivate more of a direct relationship with the sacred, or the more-than-human-world.
I have crafted them based on my academic research on the ritual behaviour of ancient peoples and those continually practiced by traditional cultures. They are dependent on the seasons, and the main cultural framework I will be drawing from is Celtic/ Celtic-Iberian (as per my own heritage). They are a synthesis of some of my findings and are meant to make ritual more accessible to the modern western psyche.
I am very interested in direct ways of knowing the transcendent, without there being a “middle man” so to speak, like a shaman or a guru. Intermediaries have their place, but I think it is vital to develop our own direct experience of the more-than-human world as well, in simple and sincere ways.
The prompts will be sent out during the equinoxes, solstices, and the cross-quarter days. Fewer people have heard of the latter- these are the days that fall between an equinox and a solstice and have been approached as highly auspicious around the world.
Though I am following the Celtic wheel, many of these festivals fall on similar days cross-culturally. Samhain, for instance, is a period of ancestor veneration and remembrance from the British Isles to Indonesia, Korea and Mexico; the Spring Equinox is celebrated as the Persian New Year, Holi in India and the festival of Dionysus in ancient Athens; and the rising sun of the Winter Solstice is marked by megalithic sites from Stone Henge, Machu Picchu, Chichen Itza and the Chaco Canyon in New Mexico.
Particular gods are attributed to each season. I will share some of the stories, myths and folklore attributed to them along with each prompt.
Being European but living in Australia and balancing these two great hemispheres means that following a seasonal ritual cycle is tricky! I’ve been working out how I can offer these ritual prompts to you all in a way that makes it accessible to both hemispheres. What I’m going to do is offer options for both.
Below you will find the ritual intended for the seasonal shift of both hemispheres.
In May, if you’re in the Northern Hemisphere you’re now moving into Beltane. And if you’re in the South, your festivity is Samhain.
NORTHERN HEMISPHERE
Beltane: A Celebration of Fire, Fertility, and the Coming of Summer
Historically, Beltane was a time for sacred rituals that honoured the very forces of creation. The word "Beltane" itself is believed to derive from the Gaelic words "Bel" meaning "bright" and "teine" meaning "fire." The festival was associated with the lighting of great bonfires, whose flames were seen as symbolic of the sun's life-giving energy. This fire was believed to purify and protect, ensuring the fertility of the crops and the prosperity of the community.
Beltane is a fire festival that marks the midpoint between the spring equinox and the summer solstice. Celebrated on April 30th or May 1st, this ancient festival invites us to honour the powers of life, fertility and transformation. Beltane, rooted in Celtic tradition, calls us to witness the blooming of spring in its full, passionate glory. It is a time when the energies of nature are at their peak, and the coming of summer heralds both fertility and passion. In this celebration of fire, the Earth and the Divine unite, inviting new beginnings and deep renewal.
One of the most iconic rituals of Beltane was the symbolic union of the May Queen and the Green Man. This union represented the sacred marriage between the feminine and masculine principles of nature, an energetic alignment that would bring abundance, growth, and vitality to the land. It was a moment of passionate fertility, echoing through the dance of the people around the Maypole—a central feature of Beltane celebrations. The Maypole, adorned with ribbons, is a physical symbol of the intertwining of life forces and the harmonious cycles of nature. The act of dancing around the pole itself symbolises the weaving together of the masculine and feminine energies, both of which are essential to creation.
At the heart of Beltane we find the theme of fertility - both the physical fertility of the land and the creative fertility of the spirit. This is a time for sowing seeds, not only in the soil but also within ourselves. Just as the Earth bursts forth in flowers and greenery, so too do our passions, dreams and desires come to life. The fires of Beltane awaken the fertile ground of our soul, encouraging us to nurture and express our inner creativity.
Inextricably linked to this fertility is the powerful symbol of fire. Fire, in many cultures, represents transformation, purification, and illumination. The fires of Beltane are not merely physical; they are a metaphysical force that cleanses and renews. Just as fire consumes and transforms everything it touches, it also has the power to spark new growth. It is the creative spark, the light of the sun that encourages the growth of crops and the flourishing of our most passionate pursuits.
Beltane is also a celebration of passion and desire. As the Earth reaches the height of spring's fertility, the energy of the season stirs in us a deep longing for connection—whether it is romantic, creative, or personal. In ancient times, Beltane was a time when couples would jump over fires together, symbolizing their union and the leap of faith into new beginnings. The fire was a purifying force, and the flames were said to remove any old, stagnant energy, making space for new love and growth to emerge.
Beltane is a time to celebrate the vitality and sensuality of life. It is an opportunity to nurture desires- whether in relationships, creative endeavours, or personal growth - and to align oneself with the fertile energy of the Earth. By honouring the elements and the seasons, we can rekindle a deeper sense of connection to our own inner fire and to the collective spirit of the Earth.
THE RITUAL:
You will need:
Fire source (candle or bonfire)
Fresh flowers (hawthorn, Mayflowers, primroses)
Ribbon or cord
Cauldron or bowl
Paper and pen for intention setting
Find a sacred space (outdoors or near a window overlooking nature).
Walk in a clockwise circle, purifying the area with incense or sage.
Light the fire (or candle) to symbolise the Sun’s life-giving energy.
Say aloud:
"Sacred fire of Beltane, awaken my spirit, ignite my passions, and burn away all that no longer serves me."If safe, jump over the fire (or walk around it three times) to symbolise transformation.
Hold the ribbon/cord as a symbol of the union between the feminine (May Queen) and masculine (Green Man) energies.
Walk around the fire while holding the ribbon, visualising balance and union.
"As the May Queen and Green Man unite, I honour the balance within myself."Place gathered flowers into the cauldron/bowl, offering them as a symbol of fertility and abundance.
Say: "I offer these flowers to the Earth, symbolizing gratitude for growth and abundance in my life."
If possible, dance around the fire (or move in a circular motion), embracing the creative energy of Beltane.
Focus on joy, vitality, and passion - letting the rhythm of the season fill you up.
SOUTHERN HEMISPHERE
Samhain
Ancestor worship was an intricate part of ancient religion. In cultures throughout the world, there were designated times of year when rituals were enacted to acknowledge, petition and thank the ancestors.
I wrote a separate piece on Samhain back in November, you can read or listen to it below-
Thanking the Ancestors
…as always, I thank the ancestors, those who have gone on and those who are always arriving.
This religious custom can be traced all the way back to the elaborate burials of elders and shamans in burial mounds, megalithic tombs and the caves of prehistory. I suspect it is one of the oldest continuously practiced rituals.
If you are from a culture that has lost the custom of ancestral veneration, there are many ways to re-braid this ceremony back into our lives. This is one option, and one that I have distilled and fine-tuned over the past few years following my studies of ritual and religion in traditional cultures and prehistory.
You will need:
A red candle
A notebook
Offerings
All our ancestors are different. Depending on your cultural heritage, they will want different things. For the North Americans or Australians out there with many a bloodline, you may need an array of goodies! You can discern what your ancestors enjoyed by asking living family members. I know from my parents that my Welsh side liked lemon biscuits, rosé and dark chocolate, and I put out red wine and tobacco for the Spaniards. Aside from some Middle Eastern and Cuban influences revealed by DNA tests, those are pretty much my bloodlines for the past nine or so generations.
THE RITUAL:
Discern what your ancestors took most delight in (food and/or drink).
Build an altar to them on the night of the 30th. Make it beautiful! This can include elements from the natural world, artistic decorations, family photos, objects of significance to you... I personally always have flowers on my altars. Incorporate the red candle and your offerings. Your altar might also include things to mark the descent into the darker months of the year for those of you in the Northern Hemisphere.
That night, at your altar, light the candle, and take a few moments of silence to arrive into sacred space. Ensure you will not be disturbed for the duration of your ceremony.
Out loud, give thanks to your ancestors for opening the ways before you. Speak your personalised gratitude for anything else you are grateful for from them.
Likewise, let them know what your Sacred Dream is - i.e. what your intentions are for your life, your hopes and dreams, your vision… This will differ from theirs, and by stating your own personal path, you free yourself from ancestral baggage that is not your own.
Listen. Malidoma, a shaman from Burkina Faso who I studied with for a time, used to say the ancestors come to speak to us at certain threshold times. They guide us. You may want to give yourself a few moments of silence and see what you perceive. We all access non-ordinary knowledge differently. Keep all the doors of your perception open.
Next, in your journal, write down your pledges to them for the upcoming year. This can include completing things they were not able to, letting go of certain behavioural patterns that you have inherited from them that aren’t helpful… See it as a re-visiting of your vows - the things that you are here to do, what you want to experience, how you aspire to hold yourself in the world.
At the end, you might want to play some music or an instrument, and enter into what I call a prayer of acknowledgment. This, again, looks different for all of us. Acknowledging them and their life, and the knowing we are here because of them. It may be a dance, a song, painting… any expression of acknowledgment that feels good. It is a celebration of their life and yours! So make it fun.
When you are complete, give your thanks again, and blow out the candle.
A fun thing to do is cook a feast. Enjoy good food and drink with your loves ones, and lay out an extra chair and plate at the table for your ancestors.
Leave your altar up over night. I leave mine out for 3 nights.
When you clear your altar, do so with reverence. Give back the natural objects to the land, and discard anything non-organic with the clear intent that it is no longer a sacred object/offering. Do not eat any of the offerings yourself.
Remember, ritual is for you. There is no one-size fits all. All that matters is that it feels true, sincere and authentic.
Let me know how you get on. I’ll be doing my own variation of this up in the sky!